I'm Taurus
evaferriday:

people who get frustrated about it though are self fucking absorbed maybe take a time out your own happiness and share it, not everyone is happy all the time fucking deal with it. i bet theres days were your sad right? because unlike you im always there for people whether there depressed or introverts because i understand and dont believe in making people feel worse or feel the need to be a cunt!! so get off your high horse and get frustrated over real problems in the world and not because someone isnt always happy or feels need to have you around 24/7 sometimes down time and alone time is required why should we have to pretend to be fine and dependent for you all the time stop being selfish fuckers and grow the fuck up! 
sorry about that but wow those people piss me off 

evaferriday:

people who get frustrated about it though are self fucking absorbed maybe take a time out your own happiness and share it, not everyone is happy all the time fucking deal with it. i bet theres days were your sad right? because unlike you im always there for people whether there depressed or introverts because i understand and dont believe in making people feel worse or feel the need to be a cunt!! so get off your high horse and get frustrated over real problems in the world and not because someone isnt always happy or feels need to have you around 24/7 sometimes down time and alone time is required why should we have to pretend to be fine and dependent for you all the time stop being selfish fuckers and grow the fuck up! 

sorry about that but wow those people piss me off 

imtaurus:

"If you know they won’t love you the same way you’re pretty much living in reality"

If you know they won’t love you the same then why the heck would you love them? And not the one who loves you? What kind of a reality is it? Or a reality you haven’t realized.

"You can’t help who you love." "It’s just whatever reality you choose to live in."

Alrighty then. Tell me when this love thing is over, I would like to hear your after love experiences.

"If you know they won’t love you the same way you’re pretty much living in reality"

If you know they won’t love you the same then why the heck would you love them? And not the one who loves you? What kind of a reality is it? Or a reality you haven’t realized.

Are all taurus men picky when choosing a partner? Like damn, do they have a whole checklist?

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"Cautious" would be an appropriate word. We are patient and we want to go for a long run. One week relationships are not for us. We do a little survey before making any decision. We always make sure the woman has to offer us something before we offer ourselves and we’re too good for the right women.

Parenting Style

Taurus and Aries
Parenting Style: Gives their children direction

Positives: Both will install hard work and responsibility into their kids and will want them to follow their dreams. Taurus gives comfort and order while Aries gives the fun and will be proud of the kids.

Negatives: Both parents won’t take failure well, can push their kids too hard, there isn’t a lot of room for excuses, and together they can create an atmosphere that is hard to communicate in.



Two Taurus
Parenting Style: Stable and encouraging

Positives: Together they’re supportive, responsible, protective, will encourage their kids to find a hobby, is patient, and instills family loyalty.

Negatives: Can take teasing too far and personal, is sooo stubborn, their unyielding nature will be the root to many fights between the parents and with the kids, they are controlling parents, and might not know how to handle a rebellious kid.



Taurus and Gemini
Parenting Style: There is earthy stability and the positivity of air

Positives: Taurus is the family rock and keeps everything together while Gemini keeps everyone moving forward and keeps everyone in a good state of mind (even if they frequently lose theirs’). Gemini is the cool parent while Taurus is a square but still has the family’s respect. Gemini solves a lot of family issues and teaches the kids how to solve issues. Taurus teaches persistence. Both are creative with activities.

Negative: There are a lot of conflicting natures that can pull and push the kids, such as: Gemini can be too lenient and Taurus too controlling, Gemini can be changeable and Taurus structured, and Gemini is flexible and Taurus stubborn. The parents arguments are frustrating and a mess.



Taurus and Cancer
Parenting Style: Family is everything

Positives: Both parents will encourage family closeness from the start. They will make a safe, secure, and cozy atmosphere for their children. Creativity will definitely exist and there is a lot of love and care. Taurus is more firm but ultimately Cancer actually calls the shots for discipline and direction.

Negatives: They can spoil their kids a bit, there can be over-protectiveness, control might be an issue, and they might care too much about family views, traditions, and loyalty.



Taurus and Leo
Parenting Style: Their children will be educated and cultured

Positives: Both will be highly involved in their kid’s life and activities. The Leo dad is probably a coach/Leo mom is the leader of girl scouts while the Taurus mom is always part of bake sales for the school and is first to complain if anything threatens or upsets the kids/the Taurus dad always helps the kids with their homework and finds a way to know the teachers. They both support creative expression, their kids will learn a lot from school and from their parents as Taurus/Leo can believe teaching starts from the home, and Leo pushes competition while Taurus teaches them how to be a good sport.

Negatives: Both parents are unyielding! Both can hold a grudge. Leo will be bossy and Taurus controlling. Together they refuse to accept their “little angel” misbehaved or is a bully.



Taurus and Virgo
Parenting Style: Structured and routine

Positives: There is a lot of organization and they can give their kids a structured and stable environment. They will teach their kids a good work ethic, responsibility, and can help them build a strong character.

Negatives: They can pressure their kids too much sometimes, their order and structure might encourage rebellion, and they can lack understanding of current trends and issues for the youth.



Taurus and Libra
Parenting Style: Gentle and harmonious

Positives: They will create a comfortable and easy atmosphere to be in for the kids, artistic expression is highly rewarded, they want their kids to have great experiences and might take them traveling, and is all about education.

Negatives: There can be a lack of discipline, this family is one that ignores major issues, and yelling or arguments are rarely seen and can make the kids not know how to handle pressure or intensity.



Taurus and Scorpio
Parenting Style: Lots of protection and guidance

Positives: There is no lack of direction between these two, their kids will never be left astray and they are highly protective, there is a lot of caring from both parents in different ways (Scorpio gives a lot of emotional reassurance and Taurus is highly encouraging and usually positive).

Negatives: There can be control issues, the parents might fight a lot, both parents can hold a grudge against each other or with other family members, and the parents might use the kids as a way to get back at each other.



Taurus and Sagittarius
Parenting Style: Exploration mixed with some security

Positives: The kids will probably be exposed to a lot of diversity but will have the dependability and security from the Taurus parent. The Sagittarius is flexible and doesn’t mind if the Taurus takes the lead which will reduce arguments. Both parents can give good advice. The Sagittarius will teach them independence and how to speak their mind while the Taurus encourages inner strength and durability. Taurus pushes the children to work hard and Sagittarius keeps things optimistic and encourages self-exploration, and both understand the importance of fun and relaxation.

Negatives: Sagittarius might leave a lot of the responsibilities to the Taurus. There is a high risk of divorce for these two. Their philosophies on life, values, and raising children might be too different.



Taurus and Capricorn
Parenting Style: A little old-fashioned

Positives: These two are all about instilling respect, hard work, responsibility, and maturity into their kids. While Taurus is known for being controlling and Capricorn stern these two can actually have little intensity when they come together to raise kids. There is a down-to-earth, understanding nature about them. They will push their kids to get a job and save up when they are young. Chores will happen at a young age.

Negatives: The Capricorn might be too hard on the kids and Taurus might be an enabler. They might be out of date with what is needed to survive. Ex: might expect their kid to pay for college on their own. Worse case scenario, they can create the perfect atmosphere for unhealthy rebellion.



Taurus and Aquarius
Parenting Style: Inconsistent but in the right environment can offer a lot

Positives: They can give their child a good sense of right and wrong. Taurus can understand what the kids go through internally and Aquarius gets the current trends, behaviors, and movement of youth. Aquarius gets the kids out into the world and Taurus makes the home safe and structured.

Negatives: Both parents are fixed and unyielding. Aquarius can be too distant and unpredictable while Taurus is the complete opposite.  They may never teach their kids how to compromise. Arguments are a high risk. The kids might also have issues with socializing because these two can create a stale and unmovable environment.



Taurus and Pisces
Parenting Style: Has an indulgent and emotional approach

Positives: Their children will have no lack of affection and encouragement. One or both parents will spend a lot of time at home with the kids. They can help foster any talents the kids have. The kids will never be overly pressured. There is a lot of emotional understanding and sensitivity which can strengthen their offspring’s emotional core.

Negatives: They could spoil their kid, might make the kids take sides during a fight, and mixed with Pisces manipulative behavior and possible anger issues from Taurus a destructive atmosphere can be created.

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Depression is a state of low mood and aversion to activity that can affect a person’s thoughts, behavior, feelings and sense of well-being. Depressed people can feel sad, anxious, empty, hopeless, worried, helpless, worthless, guilty, alone, irritable, hurt, or restless. Person may lose interest in activities that were once pleasurable, experience loss of appetite or overeating, have problems concentrating, remembering details or making decisions, and may contemplate, attempt or commit suicide. Insomnia, excessive sleeping, fatigue, aches, pains, digestive problems or reduced energy may also be present.

The depressed person may possess several of these symptoms at the same time and thus, do not over rely on one indicator to judgment. Also note that sometimes, what you see as a symptom may actually not be. For instance, not all the times being moody will be considered a symptom of depression.

Depressed not always a psychiatric disorder. It may be a normal reaction to certain life events, a symptom of some medical conditions or a side effect of some drugs or medical treatments. Depressed mood is also a primary or associated feature of certain psychiatric syndromes such as clinical depression.

We highly suggest you to always, always ask for help when you need it. It’s out there, but you have to be the one to take the first step. And the second. And the third. People want to help you, but you have to help yourself first. There are doctors, therapists, hotlines, friends, family members, support groups and countless other ways to get assistance. Please explore them.

Here are some tips we think they could help you to overcome your depression.

First thing first, see a counselor! Don’t be afraid or ashamed! A counselor will be able to tell you if you need more serious medical help. It’s amazing how quickly talking about your depression with someone else (a professional counselor, not just a friend) can uncover things that afterwards might seem obvious but in the moment of darkness are impossible to see.

  • Be gentle on yourself. Life isn’t a race or a competition. The reality is that you matter, you have great value as a person and making things harder for yourself is akin to beating yourself up. Avoid obsessing about your depression or creating a shrine to it to hide behind when things all seem to hard. The feedback loop of hopelessness and despair created by being angry with yourself for being depressed will deepen your despair.
  • Have the courage to change. One of the ways out of depression is to listen to what the darkness is trying to tell you and change your life accordingly. As long as you trust your heart and soul and what they’re trying to tell you, you will find the brightness again. The light is right there waiting for you to turn the corner and see it. It will get better, and then you will be so grateful and happy that you had the courage to get through the darkness awake and alive.
  • Fall in love with yourself. Treat yourself as you would a precious lover whom you adore, flaws and all. Pamper yourself with baths, naps, flowers. Tell the voice in your head that says you are not good enough or pretty enough or smart enough to shut up and hit the road, Jack.
  • Laugh. Studies have shown that laughter does really make you feel better. Watch some silly comedies, watch “America’s Funniest Home Videos” — at the very least, you’ll be thankful that you are not the one getting whacked in the groin, bonking your head on something stupid or falling ridiculously from doing something no person in their right mind should really do.
  • Create. Write down your thoughts and secrets. Paint or draw pictures about how you feel. Build something new. Start gardening and grow something. And while you are doing all this, listen to music, because that helps, too.
  • Get in a routine. If you’re depressed, you need a routine or change the routine. Depression can strip away the structure from your life. One day melts into the next. Setting a gentle daily schedule can help you get back on track.
  • Set goals. When you’re depressed, you may feel like you can’t accomplish anything. That makes you feel worse about yourself. To push back, set daily goals for yourself. Start very small. Make your goal something that you can succeed at, like doing the dishes every other day, etc. As you start to feel better, you can add more challenging daily goals.
  • Challenge negative thoughts. In your fight against depression, a lot of the work is mental — changing how you think. When you’re depressed, you leap to the worst possible conclusions. The next time you’re feeling terrible about yourself, use logic as a natural depression treatment. You might feel like no one likes you, but is there real evidence for that? You might feel like the most worthless person on the planet, but is that really likely? It takes practice, but in time you can beat back those negative thoughts before they get out of control.
  • Stop drinking and drugging. Trust me on this: While drinking might make you feel better momentarily, all you are doing is swallowing your problems, where they eat away at you in even deeper darkness inside your soul. If you are using alcohol or drugs to anesthetize yourself against your problems, please stop. Get help if you need it.
  • Exercise. It temporarily boosts feel-good chemicals called endorphins. It may also have long-term benefits for people with depression. Regular exercise seems to encourage the brain to rewire itself in positive ways. You don’t need to run marathons to get a benefit. Just walking a few times a week can help.
  • Eat healthy. There is no magic diet that fixes depression. It’s a good idea to watch what you eat, though. If depression tends to make you overeat, getting in control of your eating will help you feel better.
  • Get enough sleep. Depression can make it hard to get enough shut-eye, and too little sleep can make depression worse. What can you do? Start by making some changes to your lifestyle. Go to bed and get up at the same time every day. Try not to nap. Take all the distractions out of your bedroom — no computer and no TV or switch off your phone. In time, you may find your sleep improves.
  • Take on responsibilities. When you’re depressed, you may want to pull back from life and give up your responsibilities at home and at work. Don’t. Staying involved and having daily responsibilities can work as a natural depression treatment. They ground you and give you a sense of accomplishment. If you’re not up to full-time school or work, that’s fine. Think about part-time. If that seems like too much, consider volunteer work.

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